602/585-3535 Keys to Excellence, Inc. Fall, 2002

Beyond the Nine Dots:
Lives that Touch Lives that Touch Lives...

Individuals affect the world by becoming a model or an example in their small circle of influence. Just as a rock thrown into a pond causes ripples to gradually keep going out until eventually they are very small, so our acts influence the ecology of the entire human race.
Stephen R. Covey
Handbook for the Heart
In Keys to Innervisons, we teach one concept in many ways -- our words/thoughts are very powerful. Words create pictures and feelings that lead to behaviors. Still, it is amazing to see how powerful our words and actions are and that once that power is released, we do not know how far it reaches. This is both the good news and the bad news. Are we using our power in ways we want released upon our human family? I invite you to pause and think about how many lives your work has influenced -- lives that touch lives that touch lives.

Recently, I had the opportunity to work in New Jersey, where Keys to Innervisons has had a presence since 1991. I organized a get-together that turned into a reunion. Ten Master Facilitators and several Facilitators shared stories of application -- personal, within their families, staff, and clients. Stories, stories, storiesŠ

My daughter did a T-Chart about her wedding plans; My son mentors children with learning issues, he used KIV to help an 8-year-old change her beliefs about math; I used KIV to get my Masters Degree; I use it with my first grade class; Instead of looking for a job by title, my daughter created a detailed picture of the job she wanted - she recognized it when it showed up; Our inmates use it to keep cool with provocative officers; Our officers use it to keep cool with provocative inmates; When I want to give up, I hear Ron's voice urging me on.

I again recognized that when Ron and I wrote Keys to Innervisons, we had no idea of the breadth of influence it would wield. Our names may be on the material; however, this work is shared by many co-creators -- our Higher Power, and the blessings of influence of our loved ones, mentors, teachers, and guides -- lives that touch lives that touch lives.

How far back do your influences go and how far forward might they travel? We are one human chain. Again, pause and think about those whose influence has touched and shaped you. Now might be the time to call or send a note of thanks -- bring a joy to that aunt, teacher, coach, counselor, or special guide.

As the blossom cannot tell what becomes of its fragrance,
so no one can tell what becomes of his influence. (KIV, page 30.)


Thank you for touching my life with your fragrance.

Phyllis R. Antonelli

What Else Is Possible?

Gender Specific KIV ClassGetting Around The Rocks!
Pat Huffman, Master Facilitator, Beloit, Kansas shares: I tried an experiment this summer with KIV. In the past, we have always run coed groups in order to fill the class. After hearing about gender-specific programming for the thousandth time, I decided to finally try it. We had a session for girls this summer, and it went really well! The girls did a lot of positive mentoring for each other and definitely discussed issues they would not have in a coed class. We were able to adapt the curriculum more to their specific needs, focusing on self-respect, internal control, and handling emotions well. In their class evaluations, the girls encouraged us to use this format again. We definitely plan to do so!

A special thanks to Pat for keeping the curriculum vital in her community. We have lots of feedback that gender-specific classes for boys also have many benefits.

How Many Ways Can You "Catch"?

Danielle Sewell, newly trained Facilitator from The Southwest Council, Vineland, New Jersey tapped into her creativity with the "Catch" tool. She designed "Catch" cards with a graphic of a key and the slogan "That's a Key Point!" She also designed posters with Willy stepping out of his "Comfort Zone" and Wilma "Thinking outside the box." These could be made into "Catch" cards and used for the behaviors they describe. During the Hunterdon, NJ Training, trainers, Mary Richter and Phyllis Antonelli used many variations of "Catch" with the participants to model creativity. For example: Participants made their own 3 by 5 cards with symbols, colors, and favorite words of praise. These became their sticker cards as they earned "Catch" stickers towards a grand prize; use of playing cards; tool stickers; a "Catch" prize bag for participating in games and exercises; candy; play money; and regular stickers.

These are fun activities; however, remember the purpose of the tool, "Catch yourself, colleague, or client doing something right and tell them about it." We do this to reinforce cycles (behaviors) of success and to raise awareness with those who overlook successes and focus on what needs to be "fixed." I have heard and seen staff mutate this tool and say "Catch" someone doing something "Good." That is NOT THE TOOL!!! This has overtones of good/bad that clients/staff can mistake as a value about self worth. We are catching behavior, not the person. Please use the tools as they are written!!

A Fork in the Road!

Recently, Sandi Geddes, Region IV Keys Coordinator for Grand Forks, North Dakota wrote to us, " I am playing at the edge of my skill and moving on to a new position as Court Service Officer here in Grand Forks. I am actually moving down the hall into another office! I will be here to support and encourage (Catch!) the new Coordinator. I am very blessed to have been associated with this program and the great people who are involved with it! This program will always be vividly in my mind and passionately in my heart."

Keys, Inc. acknowledges all the creative energy and commitment Sandi brought to the KIV coordinator position. Trained as a Facilitator and Master Facilitator, she was instrumental on the KIV Core Community Committee, writing a KIV newsletter, and integrating the curriculum in area schools and agencies. She was Keys, Inc. Facilitator of the Year in 2001. Sandi will still teach and train for the Courts in North Dakota.

The newly hired KIV Coordinator is Sue Sholes. Trained as a Facilitator, she is fortunate to have both Sandi and Director of Juvenile Services, Dennis Herbeck to assist in her transition. Welcome Sue!! You have a very large KIV Empowerment Team in our national network of Facilitators and trainers.

Combining Staff and Students in a KIV Training!
...And the KIV Lady Visits.

Chris Kuhn, Master Facilitator, Youth Development Institute, Phoenix, AZ used a unique approach to kick off a new cycle of Keys to Innervisions classes. Using four-hour training periods, specific student groups and their assigned staff were given an overview of the PowerTools and foundation concepts. In three days, the entire facility had enough information to begin Keys to Innervisons classes. Most important, the core of an Empowerment Milieu was formed, empowering students with support and opportunities to practice the PowerTools in the learning moments of daily living and interactions. On the final day of the training, Phyllis had the delightful opportunity to observe the class and the students welcomed "The KIV Lady." She also got to be the "Catch" Lady. Students were rewarded for participation with "Catch" prizes. During the breaks, they were able to earn candy if they could relate the KIV tools and concepts to a specific issue or event in their lives. It was a great way to get to know the group and to help them immediately see, "So What does this have to do with my life?"

Growing up with the KIV Master, Ron, and having years of experience with at-risk students, Chris is a great resource for creative ideas and getting around the rocks with your implementation. You can reach him through Keys, Inc.

Prevention and Private Treatment Programs
Join the New Jersey KIV Network

This summer several programs in New Jersey were awarded grants to implement Keys to Innervisions. The following programs are part of the New Jersey Prevention Network, a statewide network of organizations that focus on prevention and early intervention of substances and related behaviors:
Warren County Council
Washington, NJ
Terry Eyler

Southwest Council
Vineland, NJ
Toni Muir

Somerset Council
Somerville, NJ
Brenda Cook
Hunterdon Prevention
Flemington, NJ
Dee Wright
Private programs included:
The Willow Tree, Inc., Morris County - Sue Nobleman
Institute for Human Development, Atlantic City - Lorreta Dutton
New Life Development Corporation, Rahway - Rev. Larry Terry


We applaud the administrators and staff who were skilled and tenacious in securing funding to bring the powerful tools of KIV to the staff, families, and clients of their communities. Welcome to the KIV network!
Please share this newsletter with
your colleagues and clients.


Poster: KIV
Empowerment Reaches
Global Proportions.

Facilitators:
Chris Goeke, Jackie Maloney, Jessica Mukherjee, and Roxanne Barker.

New Jersey Facilitates!

Programs in New Jersey had the opportunity to attend two dynamic Keys to Innervisons Facilitator Trainings this summer.

In June, Prevention Links of Union County sponsored a training for their local coalition and participants from the new KIV clients. Under the direction of Dianne Litterer, Prevention Links has been a KIV proponent for several years. Providing the training were Master Facilitators, Julissa Vizcaino of Prevention Links and Janis Mayer-Obermeier of J. Mayer and Associates. Keys, Inc. acknowledges Dianne, Julissa, and Janis for their energy, vision, and commitment to offer Keys to Innervisons to their network.

Hunterdon County Prevention sponsored a Facilitator Training in August. The participants were a testimony to the broad spectrum of the service continuum that KIV reaches. Included were: Adult and Juvenile Corrections, Dept. of Youth Services, Private Treatment, Community Prevention, and Community Outreach for families.

Trainer Phyllis R. Antonelli was joined by Master Facilitator Mary Richter for the three days. They were an awesome duo. A special thanks to Dee Wright of Hunterdon Prevention, who did an excellent job of coordinating the training and enhancing the experience for everyone.
Poster: KIV
To Infinity and Beyond.

Facilitators:
Dee Wright, Debra Stein, Maria Cardillo, Lee Ann Cianci, and Lorraine Rubbone.

New Jersey Master Recertification and Reunion

During the Facilitator Training in Hunterdon County, several Master Facilitators were recertified. Recertification is required every two years and entails attending a minimum of one day of training with a Keys, Inc. trainer. Taking advantage of Phyllis' presence in New Jersey were Mary Richter, Juvenile Justice Commission, George Obermeier, J. Mayer and Associates, and Barbara Bradley, Deniece Gray, and Michele White, Adult Corrections, Garden State Facility. Each was impressive as they delivered segments of the KIV training. They were a great "picture" for the training group who realized at one time these skilled trainers were sitting in a similar seat anticipating their first delivery of KIV. The Master Facilitators, representing a wide continuum of implementation sites, also gave the group lots of new ideas for application. Our congratulations and appreciation is extended to these professionals who confirmed their commitment to excellence.Phyllis R. Antonelli and Master Facilitator, George Obermeier.

Master Facilitator,
Deniece Gray.

Master Facilitators,
BarbaraBradley and Michele White.
On August 23rd, past and present KIV clients, Master Facilitators, and Facilitators gathered to network and reminisce. It was heartwarming and fun to reconnect.


Janis Mayer-Obermeier and Mary Richter,
Master Facilitators with Pete Gallione, JJC.

Frank Vangeli, Facilitator,
Mid- State Correctional Facility.

In Honor of 9/11 - Wise Words
The Final Analysis

People are often unreasonable, illogical and self-centered;
Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives;
Be kind anyway.
If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies;
Succeed anyway.
If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you;
Be honest and frank anyway.
What you spend years building, someone may destroy overnight;
Build anyway.
If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous;
Be happy anyway.
The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow;
Do good anyway.
Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough;
Give the world the best you've got anyway.
You see, in the final analysis, it is all between you and God;
It was never between you and them anyway.

Mother Teresa of Calcutta